To make a woman feel sexy, you should make her feel good about herself. She is more likely to have sexual desire if she feels good about herself. Sexual desire is responsive rather than spontaneous. You can spark sexual desire by flirting and being opinionated. But it is not enough to merely flirt with a woman. She should feel good about you. Here are some ways to make her feel sexually interested.
Sexual desire is a responsive rather than a spontaneous event
Although most people experience sexual desire in a single event, some people experience two types of desire. One type occurs spontaneously and can be flipped at any time, while the other kind takes some time to build up and fuel. Usually, women will have one type of sexual desire and men will have the other type. If you’re wondering what causes your sexual desire to shift, read on to find out why this happens.
The first thing you must realize about sexual desire in women is that it does not begin with a physical desire. In fact, the majority of men begin with desire and then follow it with arousal. This pattern is called responsive desire. This is the reason why so many women are unaware that their sexual desire is triggered by physical arousal. Rather than waiting for the ‘heck yes’ thought, they act out on it spontaneously.
While many men and women claim to experience sexual desire spontaneously, only 15 percent of women do. In contrast, women have a more pronounced, heightened desire when triggered by a sexual stimulus. In other words, they are able to access sexual desire based on certain contexts. This is because the context has primed them for pleasure. So sexual desire is a responsive rather than a spontaneous event.
The authors also noted that while sexual desire can wax and wane throughout a woman’s life and in different situations, it tends to be a stable pattern based on the presence of specific cues. These cues are usually associated with erotic/explicit experiences that occur in the partner. It’s not just the physical attraction that drives sexual desire; it can also be a sign of a deeper emotional bond between the two.
Feeling good about your body is more likely to create desire in a woman
Research suggests that feeling good about your body is more likely to trigger desire in a woman. Women who are unhappy with their looks have lower levels of desire. Furthermore, women who judge their own body harshly and think that others don’t find them attractive report lower arousal levels and self-consciousness during sexual encounters. Therefore, feeling good about your body and enhancing your self-esteem can help you create desire in a woman.
Men’s brains are geared towards attracting women who have good body shapes and are physically available for sexual intercourse. This is a big reason why men and women alike prefer athletic-looking bodies. Those who look good in athletic shape show their bodies have high levels of health and can reproduce genetic material. Regardless of the gender, men and women alike find comfort in a man who feels good about himself.
Having a purpose
Having a purpose helps you remember why you’re here on this earth. You might have lost a family member or two or you may have just been unlucky in love. These are just a few reasons why your desire for women may be missing. If you don’t know what you are doing with your life, consider starting a nonprofit organization. If you love literature, you can write about it. If you’re a Christian, you can also share your beliefs by writing poetry or fiction.
Getting used to touching
Women have different responses to touch. Brief touching on the arm and shoulder signals flirtatious behavior, while holding a woman’s hand and hugging her is clingy. Women will lose attraction to men who are too needy. It is also detrimental for a man to show he is insecure. Getting used to touching creates desire in a woman by creating an atmosphere where a woman can fantasize about having sex with him.